I can easily find his father if I wanted too. I choose not to because he is not a good person and I dont feel he is good role model for my son. But I also feel like, if his dad really wanted anything to do with him, then he would try to find him or us. I have facebook, myspace, and I'm not unlisted. So, I'm not trying to hide from him. Having said this, do you think there could be a small chance that me not trying to find my son's father, could possibly back fire on me later. Such as, my son blaming me for not knowing his father? This is something I do not want to happen but really afraid it might.