Daughter just turned 19.
She was non-communicative her junior and senior year of high school.
The counseling started off with my daughter and myself then it was just her. There were a total of about 7 sessions. The counselor (female) never gave me an evaluation.
My daughter had a 3.6 GPA upon leaving high school. She had less a 1.6 GPA after her first year at college. She never struggled in high school unless she had a personality conflict with her teacher. Otherwise, she usually prided herself in her school work.
She had not chosen a major even though she was trying to decide. Her core courses were; sociology, psychology, math, spanish,history, criminal justice. Her first semester she got an A in Spanish and her second semester she got an F.
She lived in a dorm and only communicated with me when she had no other choice. When she did, most of the time it was via email. Once or twice she called me "just to chat." She came home for all of the holidays. She seemed to be especially happy when she was home for Thanksgiving. We even went shopping together. Easter was a little tense.
She does not have a good relationship with her stepdad. Her biological father is still a part of her life, but only on occasion. He does talk to her when there is an issue. The last time she saw him - about 6 weeks ago, she was rude to him when he tried to talk to her.
She respects her oldest sister (9 yrs. older). She doesn't talk to her other sister much, except on the internet (she is 16 months older). The oldest is married and lives in another state. The other sister is in her 3rd year in college.
Lastly, I have recently taken away her phone and limited her email because she has been so rude and will not do chores unless I follow behind her.