The father lives an hour away, divorce judge set it up so that he has to do all the driving. He said he wasn't going to see him for 6 years because he wants to wait until he gets old enough to understand what I have been doing to him (in keeping him from seeing his son). The man isn't really rational being that he puts the child in dangerous situations and I am a rational parent (not too overprotective, just want normal safety). I am looking to be in a relationship, met a guy not very long ago who seems very normal, nice, etc. I want a family, I want to have more children in the future, I just want a family, normal, etc. I would hope that the man I choose to be with will want to be a father figure to my son. That is a big quality I am looking for in a man, someone who wants to have a family and be a good father.