Please remove your children from the house immediatly. You don't know how perverted your husband may be. Be carefull with so called children's "protective" agencies. Many times their answer is to remove the children from the home and put them in a no better situation.
Your husband needs to realize that watching 9 year old girls bathe is not normal. (even his own daughter). He should not even be doing this with five year old kids boys or girls never mind 9.
The crazy living arrangement you and he have set up in order to protect his stature in the community is weird to begin with. I for one could never understand why a divorced husband and wife could live in the same home but each have their own "half". Appearently his half is encroaching on the safety of yours and your daughters and friends. Get out now and don't look back!
Hoped this helped :)
Please know that I'm a legal secretary/paralegal with 29 years experience in the State of California - I would be happy to assist you - and, in order to do so, please answer the following:
When you filed for divorce, was the judge made aware of the situation - as you state that one of the reasons for the divorce was that he sneaked and peeked? If so, did the judge order him to stay away from the children and/or to seek counseling?
What does the court order state concerning custody?
Have you ever reported him?
Are there any court hearings currently scheduled?
Has anyone conducted any investigation concerning your ex husband with regard to this particular situation?
I look forward to hearing from you.
Peace, Love & Happiness,
The Mystic Wave