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I recently got married and I was a. When my. Husband and I

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Hi so I recently got married and I was a virgin. When my. Husband and I tried to have sex the first time he broke my Hymen and it hurt like hell. Then that caused a uti and I went to urgent care and got meds and it got better. Ever since then he wants to try again but I got so traumatized the first time I always freak out. I don't try to and I want to have sex but I'm really worried about the pain. How do I get over this?
Submitted: 8 months ago.
Category: OB GYN
Expert:  Dr. Abid replied 8 months ago.

Hi there ...

Thank you for the question ...

This happens after first time intercourse , as Hymen is rich of nerve supply and rupture of Hymen leads to pain .

It would be ideal for you to have vaginal lubricants/anesthetist while having intercourse .

Some time vaginal muscle spasm could be the reason , so relax yourself .

Gradually this will go away .

Regards ***** ***** luck .

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Expert:  Dr. Abid replied 8 months ago.

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