Hi this is MATT. The AC relay is in the Intelligent Power Distribution Module( right front of engine compartment/ behind headlight). It receives power from fuse 33 (10amp) in the same location. If you need more help, let me know. MATT
Okay, it seems that the AC relay is built into the IPDM(Intelligent power distribution module). E124 is the connector that contains a yellow/black wire (in one corner), this wire is power to the compressor from the relay. There is one more fuse you can check, fuse 48(10amp) in the IPDM , it powers the control side of the relay.
Are you sure it is full of freon? You can put power to the yellow/black wire at E124, and the compressor should turn on. Next step, a scanner is going to be needed because the AC commands are sent thru CAN communication lines to the IPDM. Need more info , let me know. MATT