New Zealand Law
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You can oppose any claim by the children, and you can oppose any payment of costs from the estate. If this has been filed in court you can file opposition papers to say you do not agree with the costs being paid out of the estate, and that you don't want your share affected. It's not automatic that this will happen, although it is common to ask for costs to be paid when a claim is made against the estate.