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This is an unfortunate exchange between the parents. The mother could not play kidnapping charges, because the child had not been kidnapped but was refusing to cooperate with the parenting orders, which is of course not kidnapping. You should ask the police for information about what happened under the Official Information Act so that you can ascertain what was claimed. In the longer term if you are having difficulties over a number of issues, the best way forward would be to arrange for FDR family mediation through Fairwayresolution Ltd, who arrange for family mediation. There is a cost for this and each of you pays half. At the mediation you can deal with the issues like the costs of the dental work, the tone of the emails and communications, and the present issue of the attempt to get the police involved. Hopefully at the mediation you would be able to get some ground rules which will help to resolve some of these issues. The link for Fairway is here, and that will tell you about the process. It is not going to court, but it was necessary to go to the Family Court you have to go through FDR mediation in any event.