That is exactly what I told them. Repeatedly. I was completely calm when I answered the door and throughout our conversation. They kept pushing me to say that it was aimed at me (I wasn't even in the room) or that it was a common occurrence, it wasn't and isn't.
Is it possible to charge him with wilful damage if he broke his own possessions?
Also, I feel that if they're going to charge him they will, therefore him going to the police station will be of no benefit to himself. I feel that I gave a description of events and anything he may say will only serve to incriminate himself, so he should not speak with them unless charged. Do you agree or disagree with this?
If they intend to arrest him, it's not like he's going to be able to convince them otherwise, so I can only see an interview giving them incriminating information. Do you think that not working with them will antogonise the situation, or make little difference?
And is it possible to be charged with wilful damage for breaking your own possessions? Thanks
Are deliberately breaking your possessions because you want to specifically destroy them, and breaking them in a fit of anger two different things?
Okay thank you very much. One more thing, I think they will be back to my house as my partner did not return last night and they haven't spoken to him. Do you think speaking on his behalf (ie that I have made inquiries with a lawyer and looked into couples counselling) is a bad idea?
Okay, thank you so much. This has been very helpful.
Thank you, XXXXX XXXXX they all say this, but it truly was a freak event and completely out of character. It's unfortunate that a slip could be so incredibly detrimental. Hopefully a charge can be avoided as we're hoping to go to Turkey at the end of the year.
Anyway, thanks again Chris, have a good day
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