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If you are both on the title the problem will be easy if you do not have a mortgage. You can just instruct your lawyer to transer your interest in the land to him and this will be easy. Lawyers are needed to do the transfer as they have access to the Landonline database where title records are kept.

So if he was willing to cooperate this could be done very easily if you want hinm to transfer to you. It is just a matter

of getting him to sign the usual authorised nominating authority to achieve this.

However if he is not cooperating then there are two options. The first would be to try to have a good family mediator to try to reach a settlement. The two of you would have a mediation at which you could try to have an agreement facilitated using the meditor. This could be set up fairly quickly.

The second option would be to make an application to the family court to make orders dividing all property and ordering that the property be transferred. This would take time, but I expect after 3 years the issues are clear and you could push this through to a result