sorry, I got your question confused with someone else.
your bike does, indeed, believe it was stolen and your security system is locked up. it's not a relay, it's done through the software.
you need to perform the password ***** routine.
make sure the bike is connected to a battery charger.
you can find it on the internet if you search " HD password *****".
if you mess up a step, start over.
if you miss a step....start over.
if it doesn't work the first time......start over.
just be patient. it's going to take a while but should revolve your problem.