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An affair by a military person can be grounds for discipline, including court martial in certain circumstances. If he is posting about it it can be viewed as embarrassing the military and subject him to discipline.
Also the military takes seriously his obligation to support you and his family. You can file to be granted a portion of his pension.
If you attorney is not familiar with the mikitary rules he needs to do a little research on this. YOu have significant benefits that you may be entited to.
You need to get educated about your rights as a military spouse. The military will garnish his wage, and divide his pension. BUTthey need to know about the situation to do so.
YOur attorney needs to get support orders and a Qualified Domestic Relations Order so that you can get your share of the pension.
It is important that you act on these issues to protect yourself and your family.
Look at the Military based sites. They have the best information for you. Also if your attorney is not familiar with the military process regarding divorce, support, and pension, either get one who is or the attorney has to get up to speed on it. There is too much on the table that you are entitled to.
Also Divorce.net is a good source of information for you.
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