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I'm not sure what your question is, but I wanted to address what it appears to be and then you can ask a follow up if I don't touch on it.
The Survivors Benefit Plan and military retirement are two different things. While a court can technically require that a former spouse be granted access to both, that can only be true if the SBP is on the table.
Now, you stated that your former spouse signed something saying that the SBP is not on the table. Well, all that means is that they can't get the SBP then and that has no bearing on a division of military retirement.
So, what is the difference?
Military retirement is only paid to a former spouse while you are alive. So, if your former spouse received a portion of the military retirement, that would only pay to him as long as both he lives and you live. This is because when he dies his right ends and when you die the retirement ends.
That appears to be exactly what your divorce decree says,.....paying out until either you die or he dies...whichever happens first. That is entirely consistent with only paying out military retirement.
With SBP, he would have continued to receive the payments for his entire life, no matter when you died, because SBP takes over payments when the military retiree dies. That is not taking place here, because SBP wasn't on the table and that is exactly what your divorce decree appears to recognize.
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