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Thank you for the information and your question. I am not exactly clear on what your husband's CO said about the issue. If I understand correctly, they said they couldn't resolve the issue because he has transferred. If that is the case, then you will need to contact his new Command. You will want to send information about exactly how long he has not been sending you money, specifically state that your children and you do not have IDs and are not in DEERS and cannot receive medical (if this is the case), and also give all the information you have about the adultery.
If you do not know what Command he is now at, or on his way to, then you can send this information, with a complaint to your Congressional Representative (make sure you provide his SSN so they can locate him) and they will send your concerns to his Command who will handle the issue. You can also go to the nearest Military Legal Assistance Office (if you have a dependent ID) and get one of the lawyers there to write a letter to the Command about non-support and the DEERS issue.
Please feel free to ask for clarification if needed. I will be away from my office for most of the next two days, but will get back to you as soon as I can.
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