Hi Sir. It is me again. So from our previous correspondence, I have already sent letters of complaint to the chain of command of my husband in Singapore and San Diego and also forwarded the same to the Reserve
Center in Peoria, Illinois.
As of this date, the Master chief from Singapore has reprimanded him and commanded him to put me on DEERS and my son in his dependents too coz we realized he never claimed us on his Page 2 only his 3 children from previous wife
. Currently, I have submitted to them the consular report of birth abroad of my son for the same purpose and husband asked me to go to the US embassy to have my navy dependent card printed. He has sent me "some support" but not even enough to cover for the balance of my son's hospital bill. Haven't heard from the chief in Peoria or master chief in Singapore if they will push for the MILPERSMAN law on family support
. I wonder if I should ask.
Also, I have recently known that the disability payment from the VA came out and a check was issued to him amounting to almost $40k plus checks monthly amounting to $800. Now, I am wondering and have questions about these:
1. Wondering If my husband reported as married and listed me or my son as dependents to get a higher disability pay BUT not in essence supporting his family, should I report this in the VA as fraud? How would I know such detail?
2. Is it legal for my husband to receive his disability pay even if he will be staying in the Philippines? His disability comes not as direct deposit but as check in his moms house. I believe the reason behind this is he wants to stay under the radar as far as the child support with the ex wife/children is concerned. Should I report that too?
3. . How can I pursue to be paid, according to MILPERSMAN 50% of his gross pay? The support that my son and I deserves.
4. It seems that the husband is not going to pursue divorce because of some perks he is getting staying married, tax refunds and all. Also, whatever he has left, I don't think he would spend that ,only for divorce. But, staying married, how can I push him to pay monthly support if he has gone IRR, and is staying n the Philippines with the mistress?
I hope you can help me with these questions for I just don't want him to run away not taking responsibility to us or his son.
Thank you very much!