Thanks for the chance to help. I am an attorney with over 12 years military law
Under Title 10 US Code, Section 1408, since your marriage
was longer than 10 years overlapping his service, DFAS
(Defense Finance and Accounting Service) will pay you that 33% directly.
But you mention
I sent the papers to the US Navy with the court order but they ignored it and never received a reply.
That is because the Navy does not handle this...you have to go to DFAS.
You need to send them this formhttp://www.dtic.mil/whs/directives/infomgt/forms/eforms/dd2293.pdf
Along with a certified copy of the court order to DFAS and they will garnish the account.
HEre is the address
P.O. Box 998002
Phone: 888-DFAS411 (1-888-332-7411)
Fax:(NNN) NNN-NNNN(toll free)
For back pay
? DFAS will not give you back pay...but you can file a contempt case in the court that issued the order to get the money he owes you