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I'm going to assume that you were not married to him while he was serving.
So, even if your husband would not oppose you getting those benefits, military regulations won't allow you to continue to receive them.
If your husband has service-related life insurance or a SBP naming you as a beneficiary, he can elect to name you as a beneficiary as part of a divorce.
I'm sorry I don't have better news for you.