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Hi I have been in a relationship for two years with a woman who was in an abusive relationship and has some problems. She take anti depression medication and beta blockers. She suffers from anxiety too. The thing is she has constantly put me on edge throughout our relationship, accusing me of all manor of things. Eg if I open a newspaper -I'm looking at women, If I go on the internet - I'm looking at porn, If I'm out with her - I'm looking at other women...do you see the pattern here. I can honestly say that there is no grounds for her accusations and she assures me that she was never cheated on in her past. There is nothing in my past to give her cause for concern, I was in a relationship for 18 years and married for 9 years of it before amicably separating. Now though I feel constantly on edge with her just waiting for the next accusation, which always causes a massive rift. I also thing my work is being affected as I seem to be frightened of my clients and bosses more than ever, which isn't good for a project manager! I do love her very much and 99% of the time we have a heppy relationship (but with an underlying fear factor) Could my relationship be the cause of my anxiety/fear at work? do I need to make a change? Note we are both 44 years old.
I am in A goofy marriage, been married to a man for 21 yrs. He Is not bright and getting dimmer .No kidding drinks way 2 much etc. I have just returned from an 8 trip with him and 26 other seniors . It seems as though I get sick every time I go on a trip. My nerves on edge He is like having a 10 yr old with me then I cannot concentrate. This last trip have missing periods in my memory I do not drink. I take lora tabb for my back, blood pressure med and only .o5 mg of clopin at night. I am 65. any Ideas ?