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My wife abandons me every-time there is the sign of rough times. Sunday-Monday I was looking for a house with her and putting in a offer. Monday night I found out my background check came back declined for my new position at B of A, its a mistake. I tell her Monday night and the first words out of her mouth are what is she going to do, this is my third time unemployed in our marriage. We were separated so i went back to my apartment that night, the next day i called her to have lunch and she met me. She started talking about how I burn bridges and criticizing me to no ends. I got mad and took her back to work. She has now blocked my calls, emails and says I will never hear from her again. I don't know if this is a sick game or if shes sick but I did no wrong, I took the job to make our life better. I think she has a disorder. What should i do?
My 16 year marriage is based on lies - On 1/31/2013, I CAUGHT him in the most devastating of all - while we were temporarily separated from November 1, 2012 - December 17, 2012, he had an adulteress/co-worker affair with a charge nurse, whom he allegedly befriended/confided in upon her hire in July of 2012, since she 'understood' him and she was so flattering toward him - (she'd been having multiple affairs with male/female married co-workers in the facility, while stealing narcotics on the job for her own recreation.) January 31, 2013, (long after he'd returned home for good, to me & the children the night of December 18th, 2012 after his shift), I stumbled upon a lengthy exchange of filthy email exchanges and pornographic photos she'd sent him, while I was away celebrating my mother's 75th birthday out of state in October, 2012...the emails/photos were on his open computer in our family room. He denied, denied, denied - after many demands, he finally eked out he'd been w/ her "once" - a far cry from the truth. I am a clairvoyant/sensitive, so for the next 6 months, I was certain I was losing my mind, as he swore on MY life, our 5 children's lives, etc....that he was telling the truth - until I sprang from bed the night after our anniversary, (6/19/2013), once again purused through the filthy pics she had emailed him for the umpteenth time, but this time, realized the JPEG dates were all clearly printed on each/every pic. One stood out above the rest - You see, I had begged him to go on a cruise with me to "save" our Marriage - 12/14/2012-12/17/2012. The morning we ported in Pt. Canaveral, he announced he must return to his buddy/co-worker's house that night, the 17th of December -- since "he didn't know how the cruise was going to go" and he had left all of his uniforms and gear at his buddy's house where he'd been staying - seemed logical - mind you, I still didn't know what a pathological liar I'd been married to all these years....Husband brought me home from the cruise, sick as a dog I was, he begrudgingly ran to CVS, picked me up some anti-nausea and ordered the children to "take care of Momma" at which he FLEW from the house, muttering about how "behind schedule" he was. Fast forward to him coming home that following night, December 18th, 2012 and us seemingly "Living happily ever after" - He returned to his buddies house, after our MAGICAL, Bahamas cruise, all paid for by ME....The cruise could not have gone more perfectly - I sensed a distance the whole time from him, but given the fights and arguments and everything that had transpired during the separation, I just walked on eggshells and gave him his space.....never knowing the Truth. How many opportunities he had to confide in me, to come clean and tell me what he'd done.....To make EVERYTHING WORSE, there I sat at 3 in the morning on June 20, 2013, after he'd been home for 6 MONTHS, IN OUR BED, and there in my face I stared at the JPEG DATE on the photo that the FILTHY NURSE had taken just for ME - she stood there in her underwear, 2 sizes 2 small, in my husband's room at his buddies house on DECEMBER 18TH, 2012 AT 1:30AM - THE NIGHT WE RETURNED FROM THE CRUISE. I don't eat, I don't sleep, I've lost 70+ pounds - at 5'6", I now wear size 5/6 juniors jeans and s/m shirts. I can easily spend 24+ hours sleeping. 2 rear-end collisions, 2007, 2012 have left me permanently disabled and my only hope is my hearing this summer goes through and I'm approved. I am a shell of a human being with no future, no friends, they've all rightfully jumped ship and no prospects. I trust no one and will never trust anyone again. My children and a plethora of meds and doctors are all that get me out of bed....and he's still here.....Heartbroken - From the beginning of our relationship, he has also had hundreds of online encounters w (strangers) women on sites, requesting nude photos, watched porn privately throughout our marriage - this is only what I KNOW of - I might add, I have been diagnosed with Severe Depression, PTSD, ADHD, Severe Anxiety Disorder, Migraines, Panic Attacks, Chronic Pain , Neuropathy, 4 Herniated discs, (surgical candidate), among other things. I'm terrified to be alone.