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.My wife and I have basically been leading separate lives. We've only been married for 10 months, but have been together for 4 years. Two days ago we had a talk about how our relationship was merely a friendship vs a marriage. I totally agree, and I'm more than willing to change things that I do, however during our conversation, she said she doesn't know if she wants to continue the marriage. She wants space to think about things, and I'm respectful of that. I asked her during this talk, if we could do counseling, and she said she doesn't even know if she wanted to go to counseling. She said that when she does something like go out for drinks, she doesn't care if I'm there or not. It built up to this point without either of us realizing it. I'm living in a hotel for now to respect her space. I just don't want to give up on the marriage this soon or at all. I want to do whatever it takes to build back up our relationship to where it was when we were dating. I know I can't change her mind, but I'm just terrified that she'll think a divorce is the next step without trying to work at it. What's the best way to go about this? Thank you for your valued time.