Good evening and thank you so much for your message. I realize it's difficult to reach out. Please know I honor your courage.
My name is ***** ***** I am a psychotherapist in the Metro Boston area.
Ohhhh, sweet soul, you have been through so much especially managing a horrible divorce and being separated from your children. I can absolutely understand how your life has now become a serious of extreme stressors and anxiety-ridden days. This is obviously no way to live and it seems you are exhausted of it.
My recommendations are as follows:
1. First and foremost, find a reputable psychologist who can provide a full evaluation for psychotropic medication. I'm sure your local doctor means well and wants you to feel better but you need to be treated by a specialist who can examine your symptoms and help create a solid treatment plan for you.
2. Secondly, please find a solid, licensed therapist who can help you build a strong bank of coping skills. He/she can work closely with your psychologist, ensuring you are the right path toward healing.
3. Please pick up a copy of the book entitled, "The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook" by Edmund Bourne. It is jam packed with coping skills for managing anxiety. It's workbook style and I believe you will it incredibly helpful.
These are some coping skills I provide for my clients and also wanted to pass them along to you...
There are a few things you can do to manage your anxiety effectively.....some of them include the following:
1.psychotherapy to learn some coping skills
2.psychiatry (medication for anxiety)
3.exercise (to raise serotonin levels in the brain)
4.yoga/meditation (to overall ease anxiety)
I would also recommend the following coping techniques:
- Take a time-out. Practice yoga, listen to music, meditate, get a massage, or learn relaxation techniques. Stepping back from the problem helps clear your head.
- Eat well-balanced meals. Do not skip any meals. Do keep healthful, energy-boosting snacks on hand.
- Limit alcohol and caffeine, which can aggravate anxiety and trigger panic attacks.
- Get enough sleep. When stressed, your body needs additional sleep and rest.
- Exercise daily to help you feel good and maintain your health.
- Take deep breaths. Inhale and exhale slowly.
- Count to 10 slowly. Repeat, and count to 20 if necessary.
- Do your best. Instead of aiming for perfection, which isn't possible, be proud of however close you get.
- Accept that you cannot control everything. Put your stress in perspective: Is it really as bad as you think?
- Welcome humor. A good laugh goes a long way.
- Maintain a positive attitude. Make an effort to replace negative thoughts with positive ones.
- Get involved. Volunteer or find another way to be active in your community, which creates a support network and gives you a break from everyday stress.
- Learn what triggers your anxiety. Is it work, family, school, or something else you can identify? Write in a journal when you’re feeling stressed or anxious, and look for a pattern.
Have I answered your question? Is there anything else I can do to assist you further? I want to ensure you are pleased with my service. I also gently request you provide a star rating for me. Of course, we can continue to talk after the rating is provided.
Please take good care of yourself and feel free to contact me with any questions you may have.