Welcome to JA. My name is ***** ***** I am a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in NYS. I am preparing my reply and will post in one moment.
I am so sorry that you both had to experience the car accident recently. A twelve year old child can definitely be traumatized by such an event and yes, I would recommend that you make a call to her pediatrician and get his/her thoughts. The accident could have triggered many fears/anxieties in her such as the reality that something bad could happen to you and then she wouldn't have you to take care of her. If she already is pretty emotional/sensitive she may need to talk to a professional about what is going on with her. Her school should have a school counselor who would be trained in identifying if she was traumatized or is internalizing anxiety or depression. But I would start with her pediatrician. Does this make sense? Sincerely, ***** ***** LMSW, CASAC
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