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Experience:  Clinical Psychology PhD, Licensed Professional Counselor with experience in marriage/family, teens and child psychology.
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I've been fantasizing my husband with other women

Customer Question

I've been fantasizing my husband with other women constantly. He's very faithful to me. It's from my past. How do I stop this?
JA: Have you seen a doctor about this yet? What medications are you taking?
Customer: I'm not taking anything or seeing anybody
JA: Anything else in your medical history you think the psychologist should know?
Customer: I don't think so
Submitted: 6 months ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  John-Michaels replied 6 months ago.

Please excuse thee JA response. It obviously a cookie cutter response. Can you tell me more about your past and your current situation? Anything you can tell me might e helpful.

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
I can never have enough sex from him. I always want more right after we just made love. He's frustrated that he couldn't satisfied me. I often imagine him with my girl friends or strangers in order to have an O.
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
I was sexually abused by my father's friend when I was 5+. I felt ashamed when mentioning it
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
My ex-husband cheated on me.
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
My current husband and I are generally happy people. He doesn't know of my secret fantasy.
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
I like to have a happy sex life without thinking of other women with him. I like looking at other women's naked pictures.
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Help
Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Just to verify, I was sexually abused at the age of 5 or 6. Then at the age of 13, my late brother-in law also sexually molested me. I never had intercourse with the abuser.
Expert:  John-Michaels replied 6 months ago.

Please don't feel alone in this. This is very common for women and men who were molested before puberty. The problem is this is not the platform to deal with this. You need face to face therapy. I am going to opt out and hope you get the help you need.

Customer: replied 6 months ago.
Thank you for your help John.
Expert:  John-Michaels replied 6 months ago.

​your welcome

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