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LeahMSWuofm, Clinical Social Worker
Category: Mental Health
Satisfied Customers: 514
Experience:  10 years post-MSW experience
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I am 61, male, happily married 39 yrs, great life,

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i am 61, male, happily married 39 yrs, great life, satisfying sex life but of late, last year or so I have almost no interest in sex. We have had sex twice in the past 4 months, both times initiated by my wife, and both times her focus on me, rather than me satisfying her. I do not take any medications, am healthy, exercise 3x a week or more, eat decently and sleep soundly.
JA: Is this your first time reaching out for information about this? In general, how would you describe your overall health?
Customer: as above, I am healthy.
JA: Anything else in your medical history you think the psychologist should know?
Customer: no
Submitted: 7 months ago.
Category: Mental Health
Customer: replied 7 months ago.
What can I do about my lack of desire?
Expert:  LeahMSWuofm replied 7 months ago.

Hello and thanks for writing to us. My name is***** am sorry you are in this funk right now. Shifting libido is not uncommon in people, nor are ruts. Also, (with all do respect :) ), age can also naturally effect libido. Are there any other correlating mental health symptoms, significant stressors, or any other changes of note in the [past several months? Were you able to perform to your liking with the exception of not much interest in pleasing her those most recent times?

I look forward to thinking this through with you.


Expert:  LeahMSWuofm replied 6 months ago.

Hello, I just wanted to check back in in case you still wanted to chat. Thanks,