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Hi. How can I support you with your relationship question?
Thanks for being so open about things. It sounds like he has been taking his time asking you out and spending time together so his not reaching out right away after you told him about your virginity seems in line with that. I would be surprised if your honesty sends him running...it might make him take greater care in how he proceeds with things with you. I would not push to have "that conversation" and let things flow naturally. That conversation about whether you are his girlfriend could feel like pressure and that could get him to back off. So while I truly know how hard it is not to know, as best you can let things play out naturally.
If he has kids then that along with his practice could limit his availability. Just let things be and enjoy the time when you are together without any pressure for yourself or him.
I know how hard it is...but you can do this....remind yourself that things have been steadily moving along and so rely on that and the connection you are building.
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If you desire to date as well, then of course it is okay until you are further established. If you don't have the desire right now, that is okay too. You haven't spoken about being exclusive so it is okay to be out there and enjoying your life.
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