Good afternoon and thank you so much for your message. I realize it's difficult to reach out. Please know I honor your courage.
My name is ***** ***** I am a psychotherapist in the Metro Boston area.
I am so sorry...it sounds like everything you care about has somehow been taken from you. No doubt, you are lonely, angry and frustrated.
Why do you believe this happened? I imagine each situation is quite different but is there a common theme? Something that keeps re-appearing? In the case of your neighbor, it sounds like he took horrible advantage of your kindness. It might have been helpful to ask him to kindly leave at a certain point in the evening so you could have gotten some sleep. If you weren't home and simply providing him a temporary place to rest, I would know that he's not someone who you can trust in the future to take care of your personal space.
Can you please provide me with some more information so I can better answer your question?