No, there is nothing about his except maybe him calling her Sweetheart, if that were all. That coupled with everything else though says your husband and consequently family appears to have some very serious problems. You probably need to contact APS (Adult Protective Services). You at least need to get your daughter in for therapy. maybe a therapist could uncover all that is going on. I know that is maybe not what you wanted to hear. The fact is if yu don't do something you become a accessory. I believe you should act and act fast.