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Linda D., Psychotherapist, LMSW, CASAC
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My son has just been arrested CP I don't what I

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My son has just been arrested for viewing CP I don't what I can do for him as far as help goes. His arraignment is at 2:00 pm. What line of help should I look for him. He is 30 years old
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Customer: I fear fr his life as ,he is anxiety driven but takes no meds except for vitamin .. He also suffers From depression again no meds
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Submitted: 8 months ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  Linda D. replied 8 months ago.
Hello, my name is ***** ***** I am a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in New York State. Thank you for using Just Answer, I am so sorry you are experiencing this with your son, I am sure this is very difficult for you. For several years I worked with a group of colleagues who specialized in pornography and other sexual addictions. There are some but not many professionals who treat this as they would any addiction that has become a compulsion or obsession. Dr. Patrick Carnes is the leading authority on this subject and has written many books for family members as well as the individual. I know this will be very hard to understand now but your sons arrest can be a point of entry for him to get help. In my experience men who are addicted to child pornography are filled with guilt, shame and the desire to stop, but they do not know how. Just like a drug addict, they simply do not know how, or believe they can. It also meets a emotional/psychological need that needs to be addressed professionally. This is not a moral issue, this is a treatment issue. Please have his lawyer advocate for him to get help. His life is going to change, he will no longer be able to have the liberty around children in his work place or in the community. But again this is an opportunity for him to get the help he needs. I also would strongly recommend that you go online and start getting the support and information that YOU will need to understand how to help him help himself. Please let me know if there is anything else I can help you with. sincerely, ***** ***** LMSW, CASAC
Expert:  Linda D. replied 7 months ago.
Hello, this is Linda again, I have been thinking about you and your son and wondering how it turned out for him when he went to court this week. I look forward to hearing from you and hope that treatment was recommended for him. Sincerely, ***** ***** LMSW, CASAC