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Hello and thank you for using JustAnswer. I cannot diagnose you over the internet as it takes a face to face assessment to determine a proper diagnosis. Based on what you described you could have an inherent self-esteem issue and you seek attention from these other women to help boost your own sense of self-worth or it could be possibly a sex addiction issue. Overall because this is a problem that is not only distressing to you, but causing problems in your marriage I would recommend that you consider going to a therapist that specializes in relationship issues to help you overcome and move forward from this.
Well I would recommend seeing a psychologist/therapist for treatment as this is distressing to you and could eventually lead to a break up of your marriage if the behavior continues. Treatment is not something that will happen over night and instead you will probably be in therapy for several months to help you overcome this issue.