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Hello and thank you for using JustAnswer. I understand that you want suggestions, but I am not sure what you want suggestions on exactly.... May I ask, what is your specific mental health question that you would like an answer to in regards ***** ***** situation?
Well there are men out there that want a long-term relationship with someone as not all men want a short-term physical relationship so it sounds like you may be looking in the wrong places unfortunately. Currently dating websites like Match.com or Ourtime.com are very popular and are catered towards more long-term and committed relationships, so you may want to consider trying this. In addition, local community centers have regular workshops and classes for a variety of hobbies and you can consider meeting someone there in a mutually shared hobby as well.
I am sorry to hear that, but there is no magic criteria for finding the right guy. Some want just a physical relationship and others want a committed and slow relationship, it is just a matter of finding the right man for you. I would recommend that you continue looking on these online dating websites, through church, community center functions, etc...not all guys just want a physical relationship as that would be a gross over-exaggeration of the male gender.
I definitely understand how frustrating it can be, I have bee through the online dating scene and it is definitely frustrating. Try to be honest with your profile in what you are looking for and be very very selective, I mean pick only guys that really seem genuine and want to get to know you before a physical relationship is established.
Then do not respond to those profiles and those men and just move on from them.
I am sorry to hear that. You may also benefit from a support group or group therapy concerning that issue since it appears to revolve mainly around a depressive disorder, which would be understandable give your situation
I know that it is difficult to find the right person sometimes, but he is out there, you just need to keep being persistent with your search. Good luck and I wish you all the best.
You are most welcome