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Hello and thank you for using JustAnswer. Obviously I cannot tell you if this child is yours or not, but I would definitely be cautious and skeptical that it is yours considering her behavior. Lets take a look as some of her behavior, it sounds like she contacts you on a regular basis which expresses familiarity and wants to be with you, but when it comes to the unborn child she keeps you at a lengthy distance and does not provide a lot of details. Usually a person would be more forthcoming about their unborn child to the father, especially if they want to have a relationship with that man. If she is lying about you being the father it could be because you are a good catch compared to other men she may have slept with and would rather have you raise the child as your own even if it is not yours. There is potentially the financial responsibility and she wants that child support as well. Or the last possibility is that you could be the father, but so could another man or men and she is hoping that it is you so that is why she is telling you that you are the father. Her behavior does lead to doubt and speculation and all of these possibilities could be a reason for that behavior in my professional opinion.
Please let me know if you have any other questions or concerns as I would be happy to continue assisting you regarding this issue.