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Hello and thank you for using JustAnswer. I am very sorry that you are having this issue, I can understand how distressing this can be for you. Because you referenced the diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) than most likely your behavior of cheating on your husband can be a result of that diagnosis. May I ask for how long did you attend therapy for BPD and was it effective?