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Age differences in relationships can be taboo for some people, but society as a whole are generally accepting of age differences if the two parties are both adults and truly care for each other. Now as for your husband having an affair that is definitely a violation of your trust and violation of what you based your marriage on, but remember he is the one that made that choice. While her trying to be involved with an older married man can be questionable, it was still your husband's choice to pursue the relationship as well so he is more at fault here since he is the one who is married to you. Your husband did not have to pursue her, but he did and that was his mistake. If he does not regret his decision and will continue to see this woman than I would recommend you at least consider a separation or possibly a divorce.