Hello, my name is ***** ***** I am a psychotherapist in New York in private practice. Thank you for using Just Answer, I would like to try to help you today. I can hear that you are very upset about this situation you are in. It is not possible to force someone to get a psychological evaluation, that is something only a judge can do. However you can get a restraining order against a person who is causing psychological or physical harm to you or your children. May I ask a few questions? Is this person the father of your children? What are the ages of the children?