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Thank you for your questions. Fortunately what you described does not necessarily indicate sexual abuse as these issues can be linked to normal childhood behavior and sexual development. First off masturbation with items or their hands are normal for children as early as 1-2 years old because that stimulation causes pleasure and a child wants to have as much pleasure as possible...also children do not understand social norms at this age. So the incident with the carrot (or other items) is quite common, as is acting out sexual behavior like with the dog and the kissing. Remember children of this age are not quite adept at social norms. Here are a couple good worksheets on normal childhood sexual development that you may be interested in.
As for the genital pain, that is not uncommon with children of her age as she may rub it too hard especially if she is still in potty training.
What I would be concerned about for sexual abuse would be intense tantrums, anxiety/fear, nightmares, regressive behavior (crawling instead of walking, refusing potty training and going back to diapers), intense anger, changes in eating habits, changes in sleeping habits, and being withdrawn and finding no pleasure in activities that she used to find pleasurable. Because you did not list these symptoms, it is unlikely that child sexual abuse is taking place. Still if you are concerned, there is absolutely no harm in contacting child protective services to investigate as nobody gets in trouble for being too cautious. I hope this helps and please let me know if you have any questions or concerns.
I hope this answers your questions and gives you some guidance on this issue. Please let me know if you have any questions or concerns as I am happy to assist and support you regarding this issue.
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