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Well, i can understand your disappointment over this incident as like everyone else you too deserved the same treatment however, i feel that this might have been the case owing to his perception of you and your body language as a person who would want to maintain a safe distance from other people specially men, his perception may be wrong but he acted upon it as per his discretion.
So do not hold grudge against him for not treating you same s other women but instead introspect about your own mannerisms and body language which may have been perceived by others as too strong and guarded, i am sure this will, hel you to come across as a more approachable persona, in other words tone down your aura which might be making others feel intimidated by your overall personality.
Lastly, this incident should not be given too much importance and taken to your heart, but this should ddefinitely help you to pull down an invisible shield that unintentionally may have been put around you by your demeanor and acta and attitude which could be driving others away from you. So the importance of this incident is only that it should help you to introspect about your personality and attitude and help you to just fine tune it for future so that you come across as a very affable and welcoming and sociable individual. It may so happen that if you ask your near and dear ones about you being overly string as a personality they may sweetly say no just to please you hence deep introspection is a must.
I hope this helps.
EreforeWish you all the best.
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It is good to see that you were welcoming towards my comments , that is a start and i believe if you may consider special counseling such as CBT from a clinical psychologist then it may really help you to modify your attitude and demeanor and who knows that may also help you to bridge the lacuna that exists in your relationshipwith your husband. May i also add that this therapy may also help you with your self esteem and confidence and give them a shot in the arm.
So kindly think over this suggestion and do the needful.
Wish you all the best.
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