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Hello and thank you for using JustAnswer. May I ask, how does he manipulate her...some examples may be helpful here? Also has she sought any type of counseling after the molestation either as an adult or an adolescent?
Thank you for your response. Truthfully this is a very disturbing situation and one that could prove to be unhealthy for your friend and his girlfriend as she may have a flashback episode and relapse with possible PTSD symptoms from being in the vicinity of her step father. I understand the need to save money in this day and age, but I would recommend that they try to move out as soon as possible because this is not something your friend can just get over. Any rational person in a similar situation as your friend would be disgusted and angry with this step-father and it would be a perfectly acceptable response. Also the controlling and manipulative behavior is only a start, it will probably get worse and may even evolve into angry out bursts and guilt trips towards her and your friend too. So I would recommend your friend, his girlfriend, and their child move out as soon as feasibly possible, even if it is somewhat of a burden financially because your friend will always be on his guard in a protective manner with his girlfriend and their child from this man given what he knows now. Also like I said there is a greater possibility of her relapsing and getting a flashback from being around her step-father, which would be bad as well. If your friend knew about this beforehand he would never have agreed to move in, and that would have been the right choice.
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