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Hello, I am very sorry that you have been struggling with this issue of compulsive lying, I can understand how distressing this must be for you. May I ask, have you considered undergoing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help you understand the cause of this behavior and to help you stop it?
Well as you know this website is not designed for treatment as it is a Q&A website, so to truly stop the behavior you may need to consider seeking therapy to help find different coping mechanisms that can be used to help stop the lying and help you find a better way to cope with stress or insecurities. Most people will compulsively lie because they feel it is an escape, so finding a different mode of coping can eliminate the lying. CBT therapy is considered the best form of therapy for this and most psychologists/therapists use this type of therapy, so I strongly encourage it for you. It will take time though, as therapy is a gradual approach and will not eliminate this lying behavior over night...it most likely will take at least a few months. Here is a good website if you want to try to find a CBT therapist in your area:
Another technique you can try in addition to CBT would be a thought blocking technique...this is where you put a rubber band on your wrist 24/7 and everytime you get the compulsion to lie, you want to snap the rubberband. This will create a mild pain that will help you refocus your thoughts away from lying and in addition the brain will start to associate mild pain with lying and will passively try to prevent you from lying on a subconscious level as well.