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Hello and thank you for your question. Unfortunately individuals with cancer can cause irritability issues...even the cancer treatments themselves can cause such irritability issues as a direct result from the cancer or treatment, or possibly as a result from a mood disorder (e.g. depression). It may be best for you and your best friend to try to give Gracie space and not try to be as helpful to her because some people with these irritability issues may prefer to be alone more. I know that you want to help her and be there for her, but sometimes giving someone space is helping. Also if Gracie is open to talking about her mood swings and irritability than you may want to suggest that she see a psychiatrist for a prescription of psychotropic medications or to see a psychologist/therapist to undergo individual or group therapy. Lastly you and your best friend are not responsible for Gracie's mood and irritability, only she is. So you and Bonna Jean must accept this limitation and that you can only help her so much, but if she chooses to not accept her mood issues, see a proper professional, or respond to you providing space than that is her choice on the matter.
I hope this answers your question and gives you some guidance on this issue. Please let me know if you have any questions or concerns as I am happy to assist and support you regarding this issue.
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