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Hello and thank you for your question. I am very sorry that you have been struggling with this sexual dysfunction, I can understand how distressing this can be for you. Unfortunately there is no one specific form of therapy to treat spanking related sexual dysfunction issues, so I would highly recommend that you go to a Sex Therapist, as these experts have the most experience in all sexually related matters. The Sex Therapist will most likely use an eclectic form of different therapy modalitieis to treat your sexual dysfunction and help you to overcome this matter, but given how long you have had this dysfunction and how ingrained it may be, the therapy will probably last a long time and will probably consist of trial and error of different approaches to find the right fit for you in terms of treatment. But overall a Sex Therapist is definitely the professional you want to see in terms of treatment.
I hope this answers your question and gives you some guidance on this issue. Please let me know if you have any questions or concerns as I am happy to assist and support you regarding this issue.
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Okay, you are more than welcome to do that, although the APA has no authority on the experts on this website. Good luck with your future treatment
My Name is ***** ***** I am Registered psychotherapist. Having reviewd your questions, I’m going to suggest that you would benefit from some Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
CBT isbased on the fact that what we think in any given situation generates beliefsabout, and reactions to that situation, and also causes the behaviour andfeelings which flow from those beliefs and reactions.
These‘automatic thoughts’ are so fast that generally, we are unaware that we haveeven had them. We call them ANTS (automatic negative thoughts) for short.
If thepattern of thinking we use, or our beliefs about our situation are evenslightly distorted,
theresulting emotions and actions that flow from them can be extremely negativeand unhelpful. The object of CBT is to identify these ‘automaticthoughts’ then to re-adjust our thoughts and beliefs so that they are entirelyrealistic and correspond to the realities of our lives, and that therefore, theresulting emotions, feelings and actions we have will be more useful andhelpful.
Cognitivetherapists do not usually interpret or seek for unconscious motivations butbring cognitions and beliefs into the current focus of attention and throughguided discovery encourage clients to gently re-evaluate their thinking.
Therapyis not seen as something “done to” the client. CBT is not about trying to provea client wrong and the therapist right, or getting into unhelpfuldebates. Through collaboration, questioning and re-evaluating theirviews, clients come to see for themselves that there are alternatives and thatthey can change.
Clientstry things out in between therapy sessions, putting what has been learned intopractice, learning how therapy translates into real life improvement.
Pleasevisit this website for much more detailed information on CBT:
If youcannot afford to see a therapist, there are good free CBT based self-helpresources here:
Also, there is abook called ”Feeling good - the new mood therapy” by Dr. David Burns. Ithas a hand book which gives you practical exercises to work through and furtherinstructions on how to better use CBT. I really do recommend it.
CognitiveBehavioural Therapy Workbook for Dummies By Rhena Branch, Rob Willson is also prettygood.