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Hello and thank you for your question. I am very sorry that your wife maybe suffering from one, both, or possibly other mental health disorders than the OCPD and NPD that you mentioned. May I ask, what symptoms does your wife present with? Is she currently in treatment or willing to at least give treatment a try? Lastly what are you personally concerned about regarding if divorcing her is the right or wrong decision?
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