Hello I believe I can help you with your concern
I am so sorry that your brother has this issue with anger, I can understand how that can distress you
May I ask a few questions to get some more information, so that I can better assist you
Does your brother have issues with verbal or physical anger, or both?
Does he live on his own or with someone else?
just our mom
Okay, and is this verbal or physical anger that he displays or both?
I lived him for yrs up until 5 mnths ago. he has no close friends to hang with anymore.
both physical and verbal
Alright, well it is difficult to compel him to seek treatment for his anger issues involuntarily. But some things can be done to persuade him, like family counseling for the everyone could get his foot in the door and help bring his anger issues to the attention of a therapist is one option. Another option that can be done is an ultimatum where something important is either taken away or restricted from him, like maybe not living with his mother anymore, unless he seeks counseling
He cannot be forced to go to counseling for this issue or he will get no benefit from it unfortunately, he must want to go to therapy to help with his anger issues.
Another option that he can do is to look at self-help treatment books that can be very beneficial for him as well
Right now he thinks he does not have a problem with his anger, so family counseling is the best option in my opinion to show how his anger effects his family or possibly a family/friend intervention to help him understand and show him how his anger effects others.
agree. when it comes to mom and bro going together- I think that's better than by himself in beginning sessions. but I really cant come up with how to get bro to even go with mom...mental block.
Well that will be the difficult matter because your mother will have to really force the issue on him and be persistent as well. If he continue this way, he will shut everyone out from his life and may even be kicked out of the house too, which would be unfortunate for him. Your brother must understand this
Also this is a good book on anger management as well
And this is a technique I use with patients to help them be more assertive and appropriate when expressing their anger.
I can axcess these websites on this chat. meaning i don't have to write this down now rite?
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Basically though, you are in a tough position as he cannot be forced to go to therapy for his treatment, but these are some ideas that may be able to work and compel him though
Although it is difficult
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great stuff thanks so much for your help. I wanted to ask you another question about myself if i could. Since about 10 yrs ago my head (cns) if you will, is very, very sensitive ej.- doing things i love: reading, exercise, math ej.- hot and cold temperatures What would be good for healing, or recovering from head trauma like that? more nutritious diet is the only real idea that i have.
Well that is a difficult question to ascertain, have you ever had an MRI done or saw a neurologist for this issue?
Because I would need to see a scan of the brain to determine if there is any noticeable organic damage that could cause these issues.
If there is no organic or physical damage that is noticeable, then some individuals get relief from these symptoms with prescription migraine medication
yes. mri okay. with other doctor I did a sleep study, couldn't fall asleep long enough to complete. didn't follow up. over the yrs just lost a lot of hope with this problem. i feel if i could get my head back, that i would have my life back.
Head traumas are very difficult to diagnose and treat. You can try going to these clinics across the country headed by Dr. Amen that uses Brain imaging and may be able to have a solution and treatment for your symptoms.
Is there anything else I can assist you with today?
no im good for now. i cant spend too much time on here...little light headed. thanks so much for everthing
I understand, but I was happy that I was able to help you and give you some guidance with your brother's anger issues. My goal is to provide you with excellent service, so if you ever have any further questions or concerns please do not hesitate to contact me at anytime. Before you sign off though, I would very much appreciate if you could rate my performance in helping you so that I can get credit for this question. Thank you very much