I've been married 5 years, been together for 10 years in total. I do love my husband but it is as if he doesn't want me to be happy. he's always complaining about money and would talk to me in an insulting manner when we are in company even in front of his family. My question is do you think there is something we can do about this. He is not one to see a therapist. I feel like as if he is emotionally abusing me. We have 2 kids. a 4 year old daughter and a 3 year old son and I just feel that I don't want to bring them up making them think it is fine for a man to handle you the way he is treating me and with my son I cant handle the thought that this is the example that he is growing up to. I would hate myself if one day he is acting like this towards a lady. there's a million and one things still bothering. I'm always lonely. He's around me but barely speaks to me and I always feels like as if I'm irritating him.
Thank you so much I am definitely going to look into a solution for this or at least empowering myself with helpful resources.