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For children this age to develop close friendships promoting their good mood, socialization, development, growth process , coping skills and just to enjoy their age is wonderful and should be supported and motivated. ,
I do not see ay unhealthy behavior in what you have described here, and as long as you provide good and consistent sexual education to your daughter, there should be no issue.
What's your biggest fear?
I am aware that I am probably projecting my own fears as a sexual abuse survivor. I also remember exploring my sexuality in an inappropriate way and at an inappropriate age with other children whenI was growing up. I fear that their affection will evolve into something inapprotriate
I am very sorry to know you underwent sexual abuse as a child.and can see why you feel this concerned, and how aware you are about the nature of your fears, and I agree with you, since this is a normal reaction for most people in your shoes, it shows you care, love and want to protect your daughter from any suffering and abuse
I can tell you that sexual behavior between children, even from infancy is totally normal, from observing to touching, and most times it is driven by curiosity, and then as part of normal development and growth, and as long as they receive good sexual education and healthy parenting and support, even those sexual behaviors should not be considered as negative. In this case, I do not see any negative behavior here, please work on your feelings and fears, in order to feel more comfortable and to enjoy more your parental experience, which is unique and a real blessing, even more now that your child is this young.
Does it make sense?
I do recommend this books as excellent tools for sexual education that parents could use to make a very good job, instructing themselves on how to support their children, while they learn about it: Let's Talk About Sex, Asking About Sex and Growing Up, and It's So Amazing!: A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies, and Families
Yes. Thanks so much
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