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I am so sorry about this situation with your daughter, I can understand how this would distress you
As a Forensic Psychologists, I have studied stalking to a great degree and yes once someone has shown a propensity for stalking in the past, then there is a higher likelihood that he would again
This is due to possessiveness, jealousy, and low self-esteem from the individual who initiates the stalking
Yes he is possessive and jealous. She inflicted quite a narcissistic injury to him by not responding to his texts anymore. He has always been able to weasel back into her life, but she is determined it will never happen again. Once this sinks in, there is no telling how he will react.
Stalking was deemed a crime in the early 90's after the incident with actress Rebecca Schaeffer and since then there numerous anti-stalking laws on the books, unbelievable there were none before this, so if you or your daughter see this man stalking her at all or parked in front of her house, work, or any where else near her, she can call the police and they will charge him with stalking
I agree that individuals with narcissistic tendencies and who have stalked in the past can be unpredictable and she should do everything she can to protect herself and not let this man in her life again.
She knows this and agrees, he is a master at manipulation. He is the most charming person I have
All part of his success as an N
Because this man was rejected, and if he does stalk your daughter, he may seek retaliation or vengeance, so this is why if you or your daughter notice him stalking to call the police immediately
Great job, good looking, charming, so easy to talk to. I feel for all his victims past present and future
I agree this man most likely has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) based on how you described him
I am so sorry that this man "weaseld" his way into your daughter's life, but she did the right thing about the no-contact order and escaping from him
Here is a good book that you and your daughter can read. It describes how to protect yourself while divorcing someone with NPD, so this is a similar situation and I think it will provide good advice involving your daughter and this man
I went to a psychiatrist in February and she called him a sociopath, but I think the title of N is just as accurate. Yes, my daughter fought to stay in his life for the first half of the relationship, but for the last 9 - 10 months has been fighting to escape the madness. She is normally a very strong person, no one can believe she was duped by such a sick twisted individual.
I will look into purchasing that book. Thank you.
He may be a Psychopath/Sociopath, but that is a very severe person with severe traits of NPD and Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) and requires an evaluation by a trained psychologists, still he may be that.
It is okay, NPD individuals are very manipulative and anyone, even trained mental health professionals can fall for their charm
So even though she fell for his charm, the important thing is that she left and escaped.
It took every ounce of strength for her to do it, in the process she drained all my strength too, but well worth it is she can move on and leave this mess behind her. The fact that he said he was dying was what threw her into the pit of despair
He hates me, so her and I will both watch for him and document any strange goings on.
Individuals with NPD will lie as well to get what they want, so most likely you are right that he just said this to keep her in his life
Good, be mindful of the situation and just notice if you see him around or his car around and then report it to the police.
he looks as healthy as the first day she met him, he said he had stomache, intestinal and colon cancer. He didn't receive any treatments the whole time. He went to Mexico 4 times and wouldn't take her, one excuse was that he was going to investigate alternative medicine in Mexico, but he obviously was partaking of the party situation in mexico and had his share of women there. a sick individual. Thanks.
Yes he is a very sick individual and it is good that he is out of your daughter's life
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