How are you doing ?
are you there?
how are you doing ?
today is my worst day in my life
very very very bad
what happened ?
derliaztion is horrible
flashbakcs is horrible
it is not stoping
ddi you miss your dose ?
I hate the day I did emdr
and know emdr theripest
it make my life worse
before just 2 midctions
seroxat and remeron
get me out that
and I cant stop flashbakc
flashbacks make me crazy
it didn't stops
all that because I did emdr
I hate emdr
and emdr theripest
I cant wast more times
I think it is impssobile to continuo
i understand your sentiments.
please do not say that
derliaztion is like hell
there is hope
and flashbacks like hell
tell me have you taken rivotril today.
NO I DONT HAVE ANY
and I cant bring any
I went to new pschatrist
I don't know if he good
what did he prescribe ?
he give me valdoxan
what happened to other drugs.
ok he give valdoxan
at bed time
remeron from 30mg to 15mg
what happened with your previous drugs
just he did that
but add valdoxan
so can you give me all the drugs that you are currently taking ?
he ask to come down of remeron to 15mg
and take valdoxan
but you are not supposed to add valodoxan on top of already present 3 anti depressants
because these 4 anti depressants can increase the serotonin levels in your brain to severely high levels increasing the chances of getting serotonin syndrome.
so valdoxan from which family?
which is a life threatening condition
it is belonging to a melatonergic group of anti depressant
but it does add up the serotonin levels
when given in addition to the 3 mentioned drugs
is it the same as Effexor?
different drug class , relatively newer drug
more effective or less?
effexor is SNRI
then forget about them
I will not change anything
i do not understand what the new psychiatrist is up to
because by addign more drugs
I told him flashbacks is not stoping
he will overload you with anti depressants
and I didn't told him I take Effexor!
but for that you can ask him to add risperidone
are you sure these midctions are enough?
which can help with reduction of flashbacks
although risperidone is an anti psychotic drug but it has an additonal use in such flashbacks
associated with ptsd
yes the medications are enough for sure
then that's ok
but you may add risperidone to fasten the process of recovery
but no way valdoxan to be added
as it is going to make matters worse
he give me gabatrex
what is that?\
what is that?
it is basically used for epilepsy
and also for chronic neuropathic pain
it is nerve related pain
I don't need that
but it is not needed for your cause
I trust you
I have another question?
ok I want to ask
do you know in love?
good for yoi
do you know about relationship?
that is one of my fields of expertize
I want to ask you something else
I been love with my gf
for 7 years
she always support me
and give me love
but before 3 months
she break wiith me
which make me very mad
the support tool
I have I lost
I want to know,because she is my first love
how men love and how woman love?
because am suffering much
is it the same for her?
you see men are more likely to first getting attracted to females and then slowly the love sets in while for a female security, the way the man respects and treats her and whether she can rely and trust the male make her to fall in love with a man
yes she love me
I know thaat
you see having said that this can not be generalized and applied to all women and men.
yes but is it easy to forget first love?
but may be she felt as if your relationship is not ,moving forward and it is stuck at one point
but remember you cannot force any one to stay with you because it is what you desire
but is it easy for girl to forget someone?
the other person's decision needs to be respected and accepted because without deep involvement in a relationship it is not going to last
yes I know
but I love her too much
but i believe women are more emotionally strong and have better control over their emotional side
they can control emotions more?
therefore they are better in hiding their emotions and take a practical approach where men tend to feel devastated and difficutl to move on
you got it right
i believe you should pursue her once more and try to convince her to give your relationship one more chance
ask her what went wrong
and then work with her to sort out the differences
that she could not tolerate and took this decision.
you see try not to put pressure on her to reconcile with you but give her some space and time to consider giving you one more shot at resurrecting things which she felt lacked in the relationship
then work out a plan to fill the gaps that she felt you ignored within the relationship
basically you got to give yourself one more attempt in getting your lady love back
but this time try to be practical and ask her what went wrong and what can you do to win her back.
is this understood ?
i hope this makes sense
I know what
and not giving love back
am very good caring person
and I know how to deal with her
if you have come to know that then what is the problem talk to her and tell her that you are willing to give her love the same way she has been giving it to you.
but she get bored with my situation
i think there is a lot of hope for you to win her back
because she is still in love with you just she is perhaps a bit angry
so give yourself one last chace
but I want to know
because am trying
you deserve that
for 2 months
and she not able to
i know that you are trying so hard
so I just want to know how she think?
do she think of me
how girl first love
is it easy
I want to know about her
of course she must e thinking about you
so I know how to fix things
but you told me she can get over it easliy
after all you have spent 7 long years with her
I never hurt her
i meant women are more emotionally strong
or do anything bad
so how 7 years can be forggten
and therefore better at hiding their feelings and emotionally
but they are way more attached to their loved one than men are
no, how can she forget about you in 3 months
that is not possible
all she needs is your efforts towards your situation and she wants to see herself that you are trying hard to get better
once she gets to know how hard you are trying all this while i am sure that she will consider getting back with you.
so try to talk about all of this with her
yes I know that
she need to see new things
she need to see me slim
but I just need help
and let her know how you feel for her and also tell her that since she has left you have been trying so hard to get better for her sake
is it easy to forget love of 7 years or hard?
it is very hard
ok more I don't talk with her
she will miss me more?
those who claim it is easy they are either lying or have never loved in the first place.
will I think
you see there is an old saying
out of sight out of mind
just it is matter of time
to get weak
and by doing things in life
it will help more
meaning that if you are making yourself unavailable for her then she may think that you have moved on in life leaving her behind and then this shall make her more motivated to move on in life.
ok thank you
I feel happy
am working hard for her
ok right now
i pray for your health.
I may bring rivotril tommorow
it will help
make things faster?
at dose of 0.5 mg preferably taken twice a day
for 2-3 weeks only
why I cant do 1mg twice?
from then onwards 0.5 mg as per the need only
you can do that
but by convention you need to start at a lower dose so that tolerance to the same drug does not develop
that will faster everything?
so it is a protocol to start at lower dose first and anyways 0.5 mg twice a day dosing is not less for a starter like you
ok I want to ask you something
yes it will fasten the recovery for sure
please go ahead
why fashbacks is not stoping
by Zoloft,effexor and remeron?
just by rivotril is stops?
well this can be due to you being in the same place where you got ptsd
had you been on this treatment elsewhere
then by now you would have almost recovered
before 2 years
just these two
for 1 year
I get out everything
you see then you should have started on these two only
then I did emdr when I stoped midcines
and flashbakcs come like hell
but the problem is that after taking the medications for 1 year you exhausted them
plus you said emdr made it all worse
and this could be a possibility indeed
I fear I cant get out that here
anyways now we cannot go back a step to seroxat and remeron
once I did emdr flahsbakcs increases
since they must have become ineffective as a combination by now
do not do emdrer
yes but Zoloft is good for flashbacks?
then I think
I give it try with rivotril
just add rivotril 0.5 mg twice a day for 2-3 weeks
and see the results
yes when I do so
I hope this makes sense
I felt toomuch imrovment
but why Effexor and seroxat didn bring rivotril effect?
that is difficult to answer
as one's body responds differently to different drugs
yes but I need rivtril effect
once I take it there are no flashbacks at all
one may respond well to one particular drug while may not respond to other
so why not take it
but maybe by time effeoxr can bring that effect?
you got to add rivotril now as we have discussed
if you want to better results
thank you mr very much