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Hello Robert, I do not believe that Dr. Mark is online right now
How are things with you and what complicated matter would you like to discuss?
First ge for u, my pc seems slow, do you know the case of the disaster
psych and that i should complain NIP?
I got an answer back from NIP which asks me only for data, how old
are my kids, how long therapy, and what is the precise complaint
and when did it happen? They know damn well what happened cause
i wrote 7 dense pages about the case. Shall i explain or do you know
I remember the story actually. Usually there is a redundancy with these agencies and they want you to repeat the issue again so that they got it right or if you may have forgotten something that you wanted to add.
These are usually normal questions that they ask, so I would not be too concerned about it. It is just bureaucracy in motion unfortunately
AAhhh they bend off the real matter i'm a little more suspicious than
normal human beeings as you understand, they want blah, blah and
I understand, just repeat verbatim what you wrote them already, so that it is the same information
the when did the great deed of love actually happen and then i can
foresee their defense.
If you can forsee their defense, this will help you better prepare then
I was not his patient anymore so they could go their ways technically, but i think
they started their fiesta earlier. The real raid started after he betraied me not
saving me for the 911 or here 112 and switch to my wife in an email Madeline
this had to happen?? Before that he had Marnix my eldest in therapie and bordy
was already 2 years setting him up as surrogate da/girlfriend and the disaster exaggurated that fiercly so finally i lost my power and Marnix and bordy became
Well remember now this was in the past, so you cannot change it, but you can control your present
a "couple" leaving me without even less power than the youngest Julius, who
finally got killed by the police and youth care because he was to loyal to me thus
the lie of bordy that i incested him had to be true, but what they forgot was that
he also was loyal to bordy. Then she told the that she was a streetwalker implicit
pimping me. Till today 2 y later i never saw a €. Youthcare conenscended me then
in further conversations as a dirty incestuous old pimp. Two girls 26, 27. I was
flabbergastered, but saw bordy winky, winky them??????
Finally they wrote a rapport wherein i was the only culprit had to go to jail and
after 6 hours go to anaother house for 14 d to stay there contactless.
The rapport could just as well be written a half year before and in now way by an
ässaulted"woman. As i told you she`s an escort for the cops in whole east of Holland
and you can imagine how fond they are of me publicing their (the johns) names on
The whole GGZ is compromised by bordy too, at least 4 directors. But i found
I am sorry that you had to go through this and it was not fair to you at all. But that was in the past and you are recovering from that incident. The system is against you which is why you have to independently focus on yourself
an old harddisk where youth care offer her some fine young ladies. My laywer sais
if we get them right together we can start searching the whole harddisk and why she
began escorting paranoing in advance.
The judges can you imagine a saint like i am i fell down on the floor.
I know the system has been against you for a long time and that is not fair to you or your health, which is why focusing on yourself and independently healing yourself will be good for you and also when you start to push these others that are against you away, then they will not influence you as much with decreases their power
So you advice to stay low?
Yes stay low and focus on yourself. The more they realize they cannot influence you, the more power you gain for yourself and the less they will be able to harm you
No trial? The consequence of this all was that Marnix lost a testikel and they all
behind his age of 16 where you here can make your own decision, but the forework
was done and he was lame as a duck, i never ever would my mum become
Freudian or Muenchhausen, look all these cards, how fast i was !!!
You yourself said one time she will be stopped. My housedocter called Marnix
an ass for letting this do to him and not go to GRoningen while there was time
enough. I only saw a friend die in 7 days with a brain tumor, the dying of course
beginning with the swelling of the lymphes in his neck. We drank 5 days before
I am sorry to hear about your friend, I know that must have been really sad for you when he passed away. I know that you want the people that hurt your son to pay for their crimes, but your focus on this has been hurting your mental health. Instead of looking backwards, focus on the here and now what you can do to help and comfort your son
In my letter of "divorce" we were partners not wed i called her a castrating woman.
But let the irony not fool us i think she`s very ill if not criminal, with this impulse,
attention seeking, penis eating behaviour. But everybody is afraid only not so my
laywer if we can get evidence or proof.
She may be ill that is true, but let your lawyer help you with that if that is what you are afraid of, but most importantly right now focus on your healing and to help your son
Try not to focus on her
But than we have Julius who stands right behind mum suddenly shouting that ball
had to get out. What has he got to do with Marnix balls Dr. Freud?
I cannot really reach Marnix or sense his feelings although he now sees the
hanky panky with the neighbour and i can discuss that, progress! Julius of course
for the neighbour.
Against me naturally and mum heats up the stove.
I understand she has done things to you and your children, but your focus should just be on you and the children away from her. The more you focus on her, the more power you give her.
I am looking forward but feel powerless, although i hunted bordy up north 80
mile Leeuwarden hospital.
You have doing a good job by looking forward, but you have to let go what happened in the past completely to fully move forward with your life
Next she will go to Germany, like other dubious doctors do here.
And therewith you mean?
With letting go the past?
I mean you keep bringing up the past and obsessing over it, but that is something you cannot change unfortunately. What you have to do it focus on what you can do now to protect your children and yourself
Wih 1 1/2 child against me and 1/2 of myself?
And bordy with her troops.
Once she and the "troops" realize they cannot influence you, they lose their power over you. The more you focus on them, the more power they gain
Another provocation will come up, let Julius go under at high school.
Buying him games.
Offer him trips.
Things i cannot intervene in.
Only talk in on them, to also stay focussed on themselves and not be bribed.
Yes when something comes up in the future, you will deal with it to protect your children and yourself.
It`s allabout (no) power with her.
If you cannot intervene then try to prepare your children to protect themselves too
Yes you do not want her to have any more power over you
and them. She and men, remember?
Yes and them too
What a game and very tiresome, but i said i quitte in 2009, cause of the
incestuous grandfather powerplaying my family.
And her real face becomes more and more surface. That`s the way aha aha.
I know it is very tiring, but once you stop focusing on her and them and instead on things that matter like you and your children, you will notice their power start to lessen
They have no other life and i have to let mine go, that`s far more difficult.
I know it will be difficult, but this will be best for you
Meaning more breaking and sationary than building or educating yourself.
Well build yourself up and that will show them that you are stronger and more independent and they will not be able to influence you
Most of the people are afraid and let you down.
This is why you have to rely on yourself
Friends etc. they seem to have only things to loose nowadays at the end of
I can see that, but work on the treatment for yourself and strengthen yourself emotionally and mentally
Thank you very much.I will visit the laywer with the old laptop.
I say nothing at a trial, cause you are or aren`t hot blooded.
Anytime, I am always happy to help Robert. Remember to keep your focus on you and your children, not her or them and you will gain the upper hand
Bye, and i receive a lot of your homewerk in my email?
What homework do you receive?
Your ratings. Till next time. I asked the psycholigst represenant NIP to call me
better than sending dates and times etc.
Okay, I understand now. Till next time Rober, I wish you the best :)