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I believe I am a serial cheater and I hate myself for it and

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I believe I am a serial cheater and I hate myself for it and need to change. Please help me!

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Hello, I am Rafael. Thanks for asking your question - I'm here to support you. (Information posted here is not private or confidential but public).

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

I am very sorry to now about this overwhelming situation.

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Could you please tell me more about yourself and about this serious issue?

Customer:

I need to stop this behavior.

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Absolutely. Please tell me more about it, like for how long have you been this way, your age and more about this issue.

Customer:

I'm 63 and I have been like this for decades. My wife is a wonderful woman whom I love, but have had no intimacy with for the past 6 years. She has found out about 2 affairs I have had. I must change!!!

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Then you have tried to change bit have been unsuccessful, right?

Customer:

I have wanted to but never been successful

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Since this has been a serious issue for decades, it's obvious this requires much more than will power. What you describe here could point at what is known as "love & sex addiction".

Customer:

Is there a therapist in my area I can see for help?

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Sure, please provide your zip code.

Customer:

07044

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Thanks, XXXXX XXXXX a minute please

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Here you will find a list of professional psychotherapists specialized in addictions. Please contact at least 3 of them in order to assess which one could help you the most. Let me see if I can find other group of professionals too.

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Here you could find treatment centers offering support for addictions, where you could recieve intensive treatment for this disorder: http://treatment.psychologytoday.com/rms/prof_results.php?sid=1382533700.4459_25776&zipcode=07044&zipdist=7&spec=213

Customer:

I need this desperately

Customer:

thanks you

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Also you would need to join a support group once you complete intensive treatment, and here you could find information for them too> http://www.sa.org/index.php

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

You're very welcome. Please contact them as soon as possible.

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Here too: http://saa-recovery.org/

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Please feel free to contact me if you have any further questions or to follow up, since I am here willing to support you as much as possible. Thank you for your trust.

Customer:

Thank you

RealSupport and 2 other Mental Health Specialists are ready to help you

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