How did the session go?
Very Well! thats what im here to tell you, he is very satifisty and happy I did not go to look for her last night, he told me you have been a great help, and continue to seek you as well. I commend me for my Efforst and for saying "Is my problem and im aware" that most of the couples or people there not as even close of admiting that they have a problem.
That is great to hear and I told you have been doing well with your progress and treatment :) I am glad that your first session went well
he thinks my lady is just busy, stress and he doudbs shes doing something behind my back,, but there is always the posibility but he does not think this is the case, he thinks she cares about me and that we made a good match, but I have to worl on this
I went to the whole story.. I ran out of breath for 30 mins haha
Good, so it sounds like he is saying things very similar as to what I said too
Haha, well the first couple sessions the patients always talk the most and then after that this is more of a back and forth
he is going to give me more helpful excercesises as well
That is good to hear :)
he Really likes that Im taking initiative for help and also that Im "advance " with treatment if thats fair to say
he is a cool dude.. he made me smile wich is a plus
he told me not to ask her to meet me half ways, but to say , hey im worming on this issues on my own, and that she will put her part on her own without me telling her.. make sense?
That makes sense. That is a good approach of more acceptance therapy, which may help you as well and to just focus on yourself
yeah that what he says..focus on You..I want to tell you about today, just a bit
Sure go for it
so.. I dont know if I told you but I was looking for a appartment the past days, so she asked to day if I sing the lease on this unit I live and I say yes, Ill get the keys soon.. so her response was "suprised u nv ention mut to me . guess were not mutch talkers now, interesting shit"
so I txt and apologize for not include on the plans or comunicate, all tho she was sleeping then working night witch she txt till this AM.. I told her not to feel like that
so I called her and she told me she will get over it
Honest true I had to lock the unit and made a decition fast, right there and then, that was my choice I had to make
No you did not mention that you were looking for an apartment. I think your girlfriend does feel a little hurt that you did not include her in the discussion, but also I think you subconsciously were trying not to add more stress in her life, so you just wanted to focus on her and her issues that she is currently going through. I do not think you initially do this to hurt her in anyway.
yes You are excalcy right..
I guess she cares if she got hurt huh
I think she will be fine and understand in a little time, she is just stressed and irritable, so just a little bit can make her upset.
I called her and told her, sorry that I dont want her to be upset.. wich is the truth
That is good that you apologized to make amends, even though it was not your fault
yes.Well that is my update. Like I say man, if you feel you havent help people here and the one to raise my hand and say how much help you have given me.
Ill be the one to raise my hand*
Thank you very much for the compliment and I am happy that I have been able to help you with your issues here. I think that your girlfriend will be okay, you should not dwell on it that much. I think if you allow her to come to you, she most likely will apologize for her attitude regarding the apartment and that she should not have acted the way she did.
Just be patient and let her come to you and everything should be fine
coolNice talking to you Dr ZGod Bless you!
God bless you as well and I am so happy that your first session went really well :)
If you need anything please do not hesitate to contact me at anytime
I will thanks again