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Dear Dr. Keane (only), I also have some angst over a friend I suppose who I am seeing on vacation and who is going through a hard time, I just hope I will be a good friend to her and not too caught up in the actual vacation. So, why do you think that when going on vacation, anxiousness can occur? I mean apart from the packing and the getting things finished before going. Why too, were you in chat and then left? I did wait to see if you returned, but not, partly I assume something came up at work and you had to suddenly leave but part of me can't help but blame myself for the sudden "stepping out", I hope it was not something I said. To me, I was thinking that chatting was really great, it felt good, how it normally does, it's really good, I do hope that I can still be in touch with you here. I looked over the chat again, and didn't see anything myself that I said that wasn't right, so I am hoping that wasn't it.
it should have said that you were showing "disconnected", I waited a couple of minutes and had to go. It had nothing personal to do with you.
As far as your friend, I don't think you'll have any problem being a "friend", just listen to her, validate what she says (I hear you) and listen listen listen...that's all you can do.
sorry for bad typing, painting my nails lol
glad it wasn't anything personal, I can relax now.
I'm at work right now but wanted to check back in because of the earlier problem. I'll write something later...when I get home. :)
thank you for getting back to me. Hope rest of your day goes well.
relax, not sure why you would jump to a negative conclusion....hmmm think about it, there was nothing to suggest I just logged off....besides being rude it's unprofessional!!! I'd never do that.
I no that you wouldn't
be back later tonight....
I know that you aren't that type of person.
I do not know why it was showing that I was disconnected as it did not at my end. It all looked normal on my screen.
and how it should when in chat eg "in chat" or "typing".
I feel terrible now because I know that you are not unprofessional, rude or unkind. I actually believe that you are one of the kindest people I know.
Well, it makes sense now, that it didn't show me on my screen being disconnected, when it should have done, then I would have immediately seen what the problem was. I am so, so sorry that I jumped to a negative conclusion that I absolutely should not have jumped to. I am sorry to have really messed up. I do hope that I can still be in touch with you...
Anyway, trying to relax now.
No apologies necessary, I just want you to make sure you don't jump to a negative automatically and think it's something you did. If you think that way you'll get "stuck" and you don't want to do that.....
Dear Dr. Keane, Review went well; focussing on the fun aspects of the holiday. Most importantly, been thinking more about what you said and I believe I have learnt my lesson and won't jump automatically to a negative way of thinking like that again. It was silly of me and unfounded. I hope that this weekend you are able to take easy and rest-up to get over your cold. I hope to be able to chat or at least post soon. Thank you for continuing to be so nice.